I may not say the words I love you although that’s the only thing I want to say to you when both we are together and apart… but it’s a struggle to let you in on my feelings mostly cos I’ve developed a hard wired ability to lock away all these feelings and make sure I stay aloof enough to keep you interested but sometimes not enough to keep you around… it’s happen cos over the years being too emotional or getting feelings or letting them be known had me burnt and consumed whole so now I don’t really know how to make those words come out and be heard.
I may not be able to say the 3 words you so long to hear but my heart beats it… every time I see you, every moment we spend together, every time I wake up next to you… all I want to say to you is how much I love you and how much I appreciate your presence in my life.
If you look close enough you’ll see it in my eyes, do you not notice how when I look at you for a moment too long and every time you talk to me about your past the way I hold you and wish I can hug the pain and hurt away and how I immediately want to care for you and never let you hurt again…
Sometimes I have to catch myself from saying those words midway cos I am terrified of how you’ll respond if you truly knew how I felt, I am afraid of being rejected or that in spite of how deeply I feel for you and care about you that I won’t be enough that my love for you would be rejected and you’ll distance yourself from me just so you can protect me and avoid hurt feelings, I’ve been through that hell before I don’t want to go through it again!
Although I have never voiced my love to you I reckon you already know… that in spite of all your short comings mistakes big and small unkind actions both deliberate and unconscious I have received you kindly and forgiven you… when I felt you lied to me for whatever reason I understood you and allowed you to come clean when you felt was the right time… I love you for all that you were, all that you are and for all that your not!
So when you finally realise that I am not one of them that thirstily come after you with words of adoration that may or may not be true remember that I’ve heard your stories, I’ve seen you at your lowest and when you weren’t your best but I’ve loved it all… the imperfections and scars!! I hope that before it’s too late you’ll realise and not let me walk away cos when I do… I promise you I won’t come back… but when I love, I love with all I got and I love you with all of my heart, I love you like I’ve never loved before and that scares me heaps… but there I said it I love you!!!